Objectivist

cuddling and snuggling is awesome when done properly. I have been held so tight, that it was hard for me to sleep at night. o.O i was like... this isn't going to work out. but its awesomeness to the tenth degree. I'm a cuddle bunny, but i don't just do it with anyone. James RAWR

oral sex doesn't just involve the penis, it can often involve the vagina or the anus. there are dental dams that people can use. They sell them, or you can usually get them from a clinic or a place that provides free condoms/lubricants/dental dams. Or if you can't find a dental dam, you can usually make one from a condom. Tear the rubber end off the condom, cut down the side of the condom and you've got a dental dam. I recommend using a non lubricated or flavored condom for this. James Knows toooo much.

the problem i have with that argument, is that I come across so many individuals 10+ who justify their sexual activities by saying they've never had sex before (anal/vaginal). Except, you can still transmit std/sti from oral sex. it's sex. It's not anal, or vaginal sex. but its sex. for some people its foreplay, for others, that's as comfortable as they get with sex (i usually see this in the male/male community). I've come across individuals who thought that by refraining from having anal/vaginal intercourse and just giving oral sex they could prevent themselves from getting an std/sti. So I dunno, I don't like the argument that oral sex is not sex. It totally is sex. James Not a sexologist

this is great Viv

I'm always horny.... and if for whatever crazy reason I'm not... I can get in the mood with some.... persuasion. James Gimme, gimme more

I think I'm taking a survey by them. James Doesn't lie in the survey.

I don't know why people want to be liars, I mean lawyers. As for docs... I dunno why anyone would want to go through that. Years of medical school... and generally having to fight off mal practice suits (I guess this is why the partner is a liar..erhm lawyer?) I think there needs to be more gay acting characters! I want gay characters that are going to work at salons, or at a bookstore, or be crazy gay activist (like me!) or... you know. Stuff. yeah. James

I hear ya. James

There are too many good things about this world and good people in it to let the bad ones ruin it for ya. Ya know? What you lack in social skills I'm sure you make up for in other areas. So work with what ya got. Ya know? I hope the rest of your week is better James

lmao, wow you two. I think you should ask Lady Gaga if she'd be willing to record this James

Your family seems a little crazy.... So how are you crazy? James

Not with that attitude it won't. You're not useless, and your title doesn't really match with what you've written. You're having a hard time, or maybe you've always had a hard time. I know what that's about. I won't tell you things will get better... but you have to hope and think that they will. that's what you've got, and you need to hold on to that. you also have people at GA who care about you. Fight for your happiness James

He is! I saw him do it!

I think I'm just prone to wanting things I can't have.

I have five pillows, and I tend to surround myself with them, or squeeze them tight, or put them between my legs <.< Five isn't enough and I'm known for stealing other people's pillows to add to my bed. There's no such thing as too many pillows when I'm in the bed by myself.... and if they fall off the bed, I miss them dearly James