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How did you feel after having your first gay experience?


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Posted 29 August 2010 - 06:12 PM

For me, I was only 14-15 years old when I had my first gay experience with a friend of mine, who was a few years older. I took it is a passing phase as on Freud's theory, though at that time I had no idea as to what Freud said on homosexuality. I enjoyed it a lot, I was apprehensive at the same time though.:(

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Posted 29 August 2010 - 06:37 PM

I've only kissed and cuddled with either gender, but even snuggling up to another guy while we watched cartoons had me starry-eyed for a couple days
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Posted 29 August 2010 - 08:28 PM

Hmmm... I was 14 and already pretty comfortable with myself and the whole intimacy thing with others. As far back as I can remember I've appreciated attractive guys and girls both so for me it was more like... enh, yep, business as usual. Not to say I didn't enjoy it, it just didn't precipitate any dramatic upheaval in either my mind or my life.

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Posted 29 August 2010 - 11:23 PM

I blew my straight friend in middle school for like 1 minute and hated it then. He really wanted me to keep going but that was the first time I had dick in my mouth and it tasted really gross. Man I regret that LOL cuz he got a lot hotter in high school and I tried to get him to let me do it again but he never let up.

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Posted 30 August 2010 - 07:58 AM

I've only kissed and cuddled with either gender, but even snuggling up to another guy while we watched cartoons had me starry-eyed for a couple days



Oh! So sweet!:D

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Posted 30 August 2010 - 08:04 AM

Hmmm... I was 14 and already pretty comfortable with myself and the whole intimacy thing with others. As far back as I can remember I've appreciated attractive guys and girls both so for me it was more like... enh, yep, business as usual. Not to say I didn't enjoy it, it just didn't precipitate any dramatic upheaval in either my mind or my life.


How could you remain so cool after having such an experience Cia? was you really interested in it, or it just happened to you in the heat of the moment? Am I trying to be too personal? then sorry in advance!:ranger:

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Posted 30 August 2010 - 08:08 AM

I blew my straight friend in middle school for like 1 minute and hated it then. He really wanted me to keep going but that was the first time I had dick in my mouth and it tasted really gross. Man I regret that LOL cuz he got a lot hotter in high school and I tried to get him to let me do it again but he never let up.



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Posted 30 August 2010 - 11:09 AM

I had my first gay experience around 5th grade or so. We met at this annual summer camp around 2nd grade, so we'd known each other for a few years before this. Somehow we decided it was a good idea to dry hump each other, but without clothes on. I have no recollection of how that started or who initiated it. We both seemed to enjoy it though, enough to escalate things later on anyway. I probably enjoyed it more than he did. We both claimed to be straight and just in it to get ours because, for me at least, that was easier to say than to admit I actually liked something as gay as sucking a guy off. That relationship is a long story that I won't go into here. It was around this time that I realized I might not be straight though, so I guess you could say it was a pivotal experience.
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Posted 30 August 2010 - 11:58 AM

I felt pretty gay, what about you?

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Posted 30 August 2010 - 01:15 PM

I felt pretty gay, what about you?


Haha me too! :P I spent most of high school being around tons of naked guys in the locker room, but my first actual gay sexual experience wasn't until I was 17. I came away feeling very good about it. :)

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Posted 30 August 2010 - 02:08 PM

How could you remain so cool after having such an experience Cia? was you really interested in it, or it just happened to you in the heat of the moment? Am I trying to be too personal? then sorry in advance!:ranger:



lol, not too personal. I guess I just didn't have too many hang-ups. I had already known I thought girls were attractive. I was at a party, things happened and I learned that I really was bi. I may be an American but I find the normal person's hang ups about sex in this country to be pretty silly. I may not be comfortable talking details much but I really don't think it's so much about the gender of the partner your are with than the person you're with. Innie, outie, there are fun things to do with both ;)

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Posted 30 August 2010 - 03:12 PM

lol, not too personal. I guess I just didn't have too many hang-ups. I had already known I thought girls were attractive. I was at a party, things happened and I learned that I really was bi. I may be an American but I find the normal person's hang ups about sex in this country to be pretty silly. I may not be comfortable talking details much but I really don't think it's so much about the gender of the partner your are with than the person you're with. Innie, outie, there are fun things to do with both ;)


I agree with you. The same is true with me.

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Posted 30 August 2010 - 03:19 PM

I felt pretty gay, what about you?


If by ‘gay’ you meant happy, then I was also happy after having it. But if you meant by it having a guilt feeling for being a homosexual, then I would say that I had no guilt feeling. It was just fun for me, I took it only as a passing phase of my life though.:king:



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Posted 30 August 2010 - 03:22 PM

I had my first gay experience around 5th grade or so. We met at this annual summer camp around 2nd grade, so we'd known each other for a few years before this. Somehow we decided it was a good idea to dry hump each other, but without clothes on. I have no recollection of how that started or who initiated it. We both seemed to enjoy it though, enough to escalate things later on anyway. I probably enjoyed it more than he did. We both claimed to be straight and just in it to get ours because, for me at least, that was easier to say than to admit I actually liked something as gay as sucking a guy off. That relationship is a long story that I won't go into here. It was around this time that I realized I might not be straight though, so I guess you could say it was a pivotal experience.


Is he still there in your life? Would love to know more on this story.:music:

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Posted 30 August 2010 - 05:08 PM

It was not under the best circumstances so I would probably go with conflicted since I was nowhere near ready to acknowledge it for what it was. Plus the guy(s?) involved were douche bags, so that didn't help. Posted Image

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Posted 30 August 2010 - 05:55 PM

Oh! So sweet!:D


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Posted 30 August 2010 - 07:06 PM

rather frustrating, i embraced being gay that time but the guy is jerk he just left and disappeared, who knows where on earth he is.....Posted Image


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Posted 30 August 2010 - 07:29 PM

It was not under the best circumstances so I would probably go with conflicted since I was nowhere near ready to acknowledge it for what it was. Plus the guy(s?) involved were douche bags, so that didn't help. Posted Image



rather frustrating, i embraced being gay that time but the guy is jerk he just left and disappeared, who knows where on earth he is.....Posted Image



It's sad that neither you had a great experience the first time. It should be a time to savour and enjoy and build great memories even if you don't see the person again. It is something you should keep in your memory as a good, positive experience. I was always curious, just that. Once I tried it I realized it was not the thing for me. Well, at least I satiated my curiosity, unfortunately, the girl I tried it with (we didn't go full sexual either) was in love with me but we didn't let that ruin our friendship, kept on being two peas in a pod, as usual. I was in my mid 30's when that happened. I've had not the drive to experiment ever since even though I've DEFINITELY given up on straight men or as I say... I denounce men! No, I'm not asexual either, just not sexually active.

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Posted 30 August 2010 - 09:53 PM

Is he still there in your life? Whuld love to know more on this story.:music:

Short answer is no. We went to different high schools and we were too old to go back to the camp, so we didn't see each other as often. We each started to hang out more and more with our respective friends from school. I found that I was always the one calling him to hang out, so I decided to see what would happen if I stopped calling. What happened was we never called, so that was pretty much the end of our "relationship," if you could call it that. If you want to know who your real friends are, stop calling them for a week or so and see if they call you. I tried to tell him once that I liked the giving part of our arrangement as well as the receiving part, but he gave me this shocked look and I kind of played it off like I was kidding. I wish I hadn't, and I still regret that, but it happened. We also tried to have sex once (like, for real), but we were inexperienced and didn't think to use lube so it was kinda uncomfortable for both of us and we stopped before anything actually happened. I haven't seen or talked to him in over 5 years. That's pretty much the jist of it.

Edited by Collegeguy1, 30 August 2010 - 09:55 PM.

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Posted 31 August 2010 - 12:27 AM

my first time with a guy was eyeopening, all the different parts and all :) but overall? not a good experience on several levels, I really regret it. Now on the other hand... my first time with a girl was exhilarating! I was on a natural high for weeks, it was such a great experience. I always wondered what happened to her...

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Posted 31 August 2010 - 05:44 AM

My first gay experience was a bit of a funny one. It was originally supposed to be a threesome with my female friend and her male friend. Yeah, we were all really drunk. Me especially. So we got back to his place and I started out making out with my friend. I don't really know what happened next, but it resulted in the two of us throwing her out and having a bit of a shagging session haha Anyway, the whole thing was a bit all over the place. I didn't have any experience with a guy and he was a full blown homosexual, but we managed to somehow make it work after the most awkward start. The whole thing lasted for about two or three hours. Pretty decent for a first time.

Downside: I was in a shit load of pain the next day. Despite this seeming so obvious now, it was not an obvious consequence at the time.

I suppose I was hoping for more, but it could have been a lot worse.

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Posted 31 August 2010 - 06:45 AM

my first time with a guy was eyeopening, all the different parts and all :) but overall? not a good experience on several levels, I really regret it. Now on the other hand... my first time with a girl was exhilarating! I was on a natural high for weeks, it was such a great experience. I always wondered what happened to her...


At what age did it happen? Was you ready to accpet that you were happier with a girl than a guy?

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Posted 31 August 2010 - 09:30 AM

I don't know if I can point to a single experience that was my first "gay" experience. I was 6 when I played 'doctor' with a couple of friends, probably 9 when I played with another guy for the first time more than just casual touching, 12 for the first ejaculation with another guy and so on. It is hard to separate what was gay and what was normal childhood curiosity and then in junior high, high school and college I had plenty of experiences with guys and girls so I never thought of any of the experiences as gay, more just like recreation.

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Posted 01 September 2010 - 04:37 AM

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Posted 01 September 2010 - 07:51 AM

i have no regrets, because i found love before i had my first experience. i've been with my current boyfriend for just over 5 months now.

we were both virgins before we met and fell for each other, and from then onwards we explored and discovered everything together

so, as i said, i'm completely happy and have no regrets



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