Speak Week Q 5 & 6

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Question #5: Who was the very first person that you ever remember wanting to have sex with?

 

Sometimes, those innocent first steps into thinking about someone else as a sexual being can get buried way in the back of your memories. And you may not remember them FULLY...but at some point in your life, something had to 'switch on' and activate the concept of being naked and cuddly with somebody else. Hehehe! So tell us, going back as far as you can remember...who was it? Who sparked that initial sexual flame in you? Why do you think that you chose them? And....a better question...did you ever go for it?

 

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Question #6: If someone had slept with a friend or a family member of yours (possibly even an 'ex'), would that bother you at all when it came to persuing them?

 

If there was someone incredibly cute, sweet, and sensual, right there in front of you...would it matter to you at all that they had been with someone who was close to you? Would it bother you to have them know that you were now with someone they've 'conquered', so to speak? Some folks don't care either way. But for others, the idea of leftover feelings or simple intimate 'familiarity' between the partner their with and someone close to them personally has a bit of a negative effect. So what do you think? Problems? Or no problems?

[Comicality]

Question #5 - Who was the first person I ever had sexual thoughts about?

 

The FIRST sexual thoughts I ever had in my life were for this girl, Evelyn in the 3rd grade. It was more a result of me getting into my Dad's Playboy's (and his porn movies...on BETA!!!), and imagining her naked. But I clearly remember wanting to do stuff with her. Thank goodness I didn't. But she was my first 'awakening'.

 

Then came Seth and Chris, who were my very best friends on Earth at the time. Seth was two years younger than me, and Chris was the same age. I guess it was maybe 4th or 5th grade, so I was 9 or 10 years old. I used to sleep over at Chris' house almost every weekend, and we grew up together, so we were always really close. And he was DAMN cute! Never got my chance to do the deed with him though.

 

Seth, on the other hand, I first started having thoughts of him because he never had a problem peeing out in the open. Hahaha! So exposing himself wasn't a big deal. And naturally that's going to spark SOME kind of reaction in a growing gay boy like myself. I was in high school by the time we got together, but he ost his virginity to me (a 'few' times) later on. He was in the 7th or 8th grade still. And it was hot. It never became anything more than a few afternoons in his attic...but he's up there as one of my all time favorite sexual experiences. Damn...I miss him.

 

 

Question #6 - Would it matter if the person I was persuing had slept with someone I know?

 

Would it matter? A little bit. Not much though. I think the only thing that I would worry about is having anything 'rekindled' by them being together again. I doubt it would happen, but you can never be 100% sure, you know? The people that I've slept with in life, whenever I see them, the sex and how good (or bad) it was is the first thing that comes to mind. And if it was good...I have to admit, the thought of a repeat performance crosses my mind. So, I'd be careful about knowing what kind of feelings were leftover between the person I was with and the person I considered a friend. But other than that, I might give the relationship a try anyway.

[JamesSavik]

Question #5 - Who was the first person I ever had sexual thoughts about?

 

 

Leif!

 

 

Question #6: If someone had slept with a friend or a family member of yours (possibly even an 'ex'), would that bother you at all when it came to persuing them?

 

Icky, icky! You did my brother/sister/father/mother/cousin/grandparents! Ewwww! Get away!