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I think that a lot of folks were in a bad place when I originally asked this question for a future issue of Imagine magazine, both here and on the Shack. Which is understandable. It can drag painful memories to the surface and can be a difficult thing to talk about. But, seeing as the articles in Imagine were made to inform and inspire, I hope to get some heartfelt responses to the whole 'heartbreak' question. It is something that we all experience or soon will, after all. SO...if you guys have any comments on this, let me know! I'd be interested to hear more. Cool?

 

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Loving someone and exposing the most vulnerable parts of your heart and your soul...only to be betrayed or rejected later, can be a devastating experience. God knows that I've channeled a great deal of heartache and pain into my stories on this site. And let me tell you, it doesn't get any easier. If you think you're going to be able to build up a tolerance to having someone simply 'not love you'...good luck with that. If you ever figure out that formula, put it in a bottle and sell me a case of it. K?

 

So tell us of a significant broken heart situation in your life. What happened? Were you in a relationship at the time? Were you cheated on? Did things just...go astray? How old were you? Was it your first crush? How did you get over it? DID you get over it at all? Maybe it was a relationship that simply didn't work out. Maybe it wasn't a relationship at all. Maybe it was somebody you had serious feelings for...but they weren't gay. Or unavailable, or promised to someone else, or simply not interested.

 

Whatever your thoughts are on the heartbreak you've all faced in your lives...feel free to put it here and relieve yourself of the burden. Talk about it. Why not? You know?

 

Interested to see what you guys have to say on this one! I'll add two or three heartbreaks of my own and give details when I get a chance!

 

Just know that you are loved. And the 'real thing' takes time. Just remember that, and never give up the hope that you'll eventually find someone to love you the way you deserve to be loved. K? That person is out there. And they're lonely too...

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Hehehe, a few songs that, if you play them when I'm heartbroken...TEARS every time! LOL! Just a few of many, believe me. Certain songs just tap into the heartbreak center of my brain, I guess! Feel free to add a heartbreak song of your own below! :: Sniffles :: :P

 

https://youtu.be/QBS0vL-H_kg

 

https://youtu.be/RXwE1G7_U9M

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30 minutes ago, Comicality said:

 

Hehehe, a few songs that, if you play them when I'm heartbroken...TEARS every time! LOL! Just a few of many, believe me. Certain songs just tap into the heartbreak center of my brain, I guess! Feel free to add a heartbreak song of your own below! :: Sniffles :: :P

 

https://youtu.be/QBS0vL-H_kg

 

https://youtu.be/RXwE1G7_U9M

Oh man... Comsie I have a few of those songs myself... while they are of a personal nature, they do help when needed and maybe soon I can share them? as of now, I may need them to be able to share

 

37 minutes ago, Comicality said:

 

I think that a lot of folks were in a bad place when I originally asked this question for a future issue of Imagine magazine, both here and on the Shack. Which is understandable. It can drag painful memories to the surface and can be a difficult thing to talk about. But, seeing as the articles in Imagine were made to inform and inspire, I hope to get some heartfelt responses to the whole 'heartbreak' question. It is something that we all experience or soon will, after all. SO...if you guys have any comments on this, let me know! I'd be interested to hear more. Cool?

 

xsPo80R.jpg?1

 

 

Loving someone and exposing the most vulnerable parts of your heart and your soul...only to be betrayed or rejected later, can be a devastating experience. God knows that I've channeled a great deal of heartache and pain into my stories on this site. And let me tell you, it doesn't get any easier. If you think you're going to be able to build up a tolerance to having someone simply 'not love you'...good luck with that. If you ever figure out that formula, put it in a bottle and sell me a case of it. K?

 

So tell us of a significant broken heart situation in your life. What happened? Were you in a relationship at the time? Were you cheated on? Did things just...go astray? How old were you? Was it your first crush? How did you get over it? DID you get over it at all? Maybe it was a relationship that simply didn't work out. Maybe it wasn't a relationship at all. Maybe it was somebody you had serious feelings for...but they weren't gay. Or unavailable, or promised to someone else, or simply not interested.

 

Whatever your thoughts are on the heartbreak you've all faced in your lives...feel free to put it here and relieve yourself of the burden. Talk about it. Why not? You know?

 

Interested to see what you guys have to say on this one! I'll add two or three heartbreaks of my own and give details when I get a chance!

 

Just know that you are loved. And the 'real thing' takes time. Just remember that, and never give up the hope that you'll eventually find someone to love you the way you deserve to be loved. K? That person is out there. And they're lonely too...

The love of My childhood became the heartbreak of my life and depression lurked even till now, even as a young lover it was always hard to understand someone falling OUT of LOVE with another... but over the Years I have come to a great understanding that it just at times is not by choice> I mean the pressures of others can cause us to do things we don't want to do, but its better than all that follows if we don't go thru it. My heart broke after a 7-year relationship with my childhood sweetheart resulted in his death because he saw no other way out. He was being forced to live a lie in a Marriage he never wanted, and upon realizing it came for one more fling before the deed. His honesty and tears led us to a place of hope once more, he expressed his hatred for living the lie of living with a woman he did not even love, and every time confirmed he was thinking of me. The price became too much for him, he didn't want her and couldn't have us and I could see as we talked it was cutting deep into his heart and soul. But I never had expected the outcome that fell on me, the last night that in fact, I was believing was to be our again New beginning through our passions and all the feelings we had returning to what they were, But even much, much more as we embraced all the pains and woes left and gone to draw all of what we were and had been into oneness again as our love that never left obviously either one came full force as a nuclear Blast and every part of us melted into One mind, body, spirit,  and soul, as though we never missed a day not one second of the passion and love we felt. Oh, I had been hurt but I knew my Then Man who I had known since we were both Boys was not lying or pulling anything, he knew I would have sensed it like I said we melted into one and even the pain I had felt let abruptly and every part of me turning into exploring molecules of our entwined bodies, it seemed so right, so pure and so heavenly the Majic back and stronger more forceful yet more caressing we were in parallel again neither better in any way just even and all the glory we felt becoming the most provocative and passionate experience we ever had been  exposed to like riding on a dream cloud never felling the sense of falling but to the contrary Floating as if On air as we connected he had assured and explained his ONLY reasons for us ever seperating in the first place was never because of me he continued to breathe a long breath as not just our passion but his need to share over took us both, I was in the perfect zone to listen because he had said and done everything over and above to convince me he loved me and it reconfirmed how much I loved him, he continued and said "No my love, the reasons I left were because ... Because... I loved us and people asking questions and inquiring, and digging and thrashing continually if Carrie and I would end up Wed.  He continued I really only ever thought of Carrie as a really good friend and thought she was the same until.... he hung his head... until ... I found out it was all worked out... anger is his voice, Not Mad...I could tell he was not happy with what had happened, He Said " I was more or less Shoved into Marrying Carrie... And I thought I could... no... he stammered might be able to change things around but our Parents were persistent and well Carrie really seemed pleased about it... I cried he said every day as the wedding approached knowing that I was having to Give you up, He continued but As religious as my parents are I knew I couldn't even explain to them my sadness, and all they could say was I had cold feet and it would go  after the wedding and we were alone on our honeymoon... My heart cried I felt his agony, and his chivalry I could see how he had taken steps to prevent outing us both and in doing so thought he was taking a hit for the team...!!!! which made me love him even more and I didn't know I could. we talked and made love and cuddled, we loved to cuddle and it felt so perfect and right and heavenly as we molded ourselves into each other crook and fell asleep in each other's arms ONE LAST TIME...Yes it was the last time I ever held him seems he had it planned to come and share and repair all that was wrong between us but couldn't repair things with Carrie his wife or his Parents and Unknown to me when he left the following morning Just so Damn happy and giddy I thought he would be back that day..., but he wasn't, as a matter of fact, the following morning his mother called me and said he had committed suicide.. it caused me to become sick instantly and without warning like I was losing all of my bodily functions... and I fainted, blacked out... she had his dad call 911 and he ran to my place...After I had come about and regrouped and everything settled down and Dutch left I walked into my Bedroom as I did I noticed something I did not see before and I went to retrieve it, a paper with his handwriting on it, and addressed to me...very clearly although my heart cried I was able to understand somewhat without falling apart... The Letter Read like this..." My love and soul mate as you read this, I have left this world, not for any wrongdoings from you... for you are my world always have been and always would have been.. I have always loved you alone with all my heart and being and I needed to share that with you. What I have done, is Fix my Problems of living a lie, and to ease my pain from not being able to have you alone, by myself to embrace and love you the way I want the world has and is and will continue to steal from me, so my choice is to end it here and now and for good, and I am sorry you will be hurt too, and maybe someday you can and will forgive me but babe, Last night was heaven for me and I pray for you, I jst wanted one more time with my Love, my Man, my soul mate...this is it I am not going back to Carry... my heart does and will always be your's  and never belong to anyone else...  goodbye my Love, my life, my hope, and my completeness, My Eternal soul Mate I love YOU with all my Heart... and that was it the end and the beginning Of another boken heart...!!      ( " Comsie, I may have overdone the Length I am sorry if I did, I did get caught up in the pain, please forgive and use what you can... I just thank you for being there for us and love you, bro...)

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